Quilts bring 'hug' of encouragement to men at Joseph McFee center

Quilts bring ‘hug’ of encouragement to men at Joseph McFee center

Members of the San Francisco Quilters Guild saw a television news story in July featuring The Salvation Army Joseph McFee Center (JMC) in the city’s Mission District. That’s when something caught their eye.

Quilts bring 'hug' of encouragement to men at Joseph McFee center

Courtesy Jessica Church.

“It was like, ‘Aw, those beds need some quilts,’” said San Francisco Quilters Guild Community Outreach Co-Chair Jessica Church, who fielded the response. Church said the guild’s community outreach distributes quilts to a variety of causes. These quilts are typically made out of donated fabric or are given when members have made a sufficient number of quilts for their loved ones.

“We like to think about the quilts as giving a hug from us to them because a lot of time and love goes into making quilts,” said Church. “Generally we like to give to nonprofits or those who are struggling or those who are trying to do good in their life… It’s just something nice to encourage people.”

For more than a month, when quilts came in, Church said they set them aside for those at the JMC, which currently serves 36 men as part of The Way Out, The Salvation Army’s recovery-focused homelessness initiative in San Francisco.

At the JMC’s Sept. 11 house meeting, Church and members of the guild delivered the quilts to participants.

“They were so happy,” said Program Manager Sheila McCarthy, noting how it’s common for the men to try to get out of the weekly meeting. “There were so many guys at this Monday night meeting, and they all got a quilt. The guys that were at work during the meeting asked for a quilt—and they all have them out on their beds.”

Church said being able to hand deliver the quilts was special.

“It was really touching how excited they were,” she said. “They were wearing them, putting them on as capes… I like what the quilts bring out in people.”

Quilts bring 'hug' of encouragement to men at Joseph McFee center

Courtesy Jessica Church.

Both Church and McCarthy said many of the men then shared fond memories of family members who would make quilts.

“I wasn’t sure how they were going to receive it,” said McCarthy. “A lot of our guys are rough and tumble…You get a lot of that hard exterior, but they loved it. It was good to see.”

The JMC serves as the third step of The Way Out’s continuum of care, McCarthy said, noting that it aims to be a solution for a common problem many seeking sobriety face—achieving sobriety and then experiencing setbacks when they return to their old situation.

“This gives them a period of time to where they can really establish their sobriety and network,” she said. “So much of recovery is community and connections in the community with a similar group of people.”

McCarthy said the men who are part of the program all have chosen to be there, with some coming out of incarceration. Many are also trying to achieve certain steps to firm up their foundation for life after the JMC, like saving first and last months’ rent, working with contacts in the community and getting a GED or vocational training.

“We want them to flourish,” she said. “To have the work-life balance that is so important, and the recovery—the recovery is the base and you work on the things you need to do to stay in this beautiful city of ours.”

McCarthy shared the JMC’s goals—aiming to expand to around 100 participants.

“We’re really trying to make it available to all who need it,” she said. “Anyone who needs the help, we want to get it to them, so they can succeed because the ultimate goal really is self-sufficiency.”

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Hillary Jackson

Hillary Jackson is Managing Editor of Caring, where she keeps her finger on the pulse of The Salvation Army and her eyes on the day’s headlines—all in the name of creating smart, impactful content that prompts action. With an insatiable love of information and heart for the underdog, she believes stories to be one of the best ways to understand and empathize with others. Hillary has worked around the world covering the Olympic Games, and her words have appeared in outlets including Washington Post, The Week, The Muse and Architectural Digest. Hillary holds a master’s degree in journalism from USC’s Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism. She was a finalist for a pair of National Arts and Entertainment Journalism (NAEJ) Awards as well as for the Religion Newswriters Association’s Chandler Student Award for “The PK Project,” a multimedia experience chronicling the stereotypes facing preacher’s kids versus reality. When she’s not word slinging, you’ll find her walking her West Highland Terrier, Nessie.